Real Chat with Kat

Welcome to Real Chat with Kat — the podcast that’s all about real conversations for real transformation.

I’m your host, Kat Polsinelli, and here we tackle the tough stuff — the pivots, the challenges, and the victories that shape our lives and businesses.

From overcoming trauma and finding your voice to navigating life’s unexpected twists, we get raw, honest, and open with inspiring guests who share their stories of resilience, healing, and growth. Whether it’s breaking through emotional abuse, embracing self-worth, or thriving in entrepreneurship, you’ll find connection, empowerment, and tools to keep moving forward.

So grab your favorite drink, settle in, and get ready for stories that hit home and conversations that make a difference. Let’s get real — together!

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Episodes

Friday Nov 01, 2024

In this episode Kat and Amy dive into an authentic, conversational discussion about personal growth, wellness, and emotional intelligence. They explore how the words we use and our underlying beliefs can significantly impact our emotions, stress levels, and relationships. Amy shares her journey as an executive coach and wellness trainer, explaining how overcoming her personal challenges has shaped her approach to helping others. Together, they discuss strategies for integrating all aspects of life, the importance of being present, and recognizing our own growth through small wins. The episode wraps up with empowering insights on modeling emotional awareness and healthy communication for our children.
 
Meet my guest! Amy Ballantyne is an executive life coach, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and host of the podcast Power to the People Pleasers. As a sought-after workplace trainer, Amy specializes in creating transformational change for her clients through empathy, compassion, and tough but powerful questions that unlock new perspectives. With a mission to inspire 10,000 people to embrace their worthiness and release daily overwhelm, Amy is passionate about empowering individuals to achieve their goals, integrate wellness, and foster emotional intelligence in all areas of life.
 
Quote/Piece of Advice: To the world you are one person, but to one person you are the world.
 
Connect: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amyballantyne/     Website: https://amyballantyne.com/ 
 
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffectCoach or @KatPolsinelli 
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.comAND Join our Facebook Community 👇https://www.facebook.com/groups/thelotuseffectgroup

Friday Oct 25, 2024

In this episode Jessica Jacobs shares insights on how to navigate change and support people through life’s major transitions. We dive into the societal pressures working moms face and explore ways to empower women to make choices that suit their families. Jessica introduces the concept of “glimmers”—small moments of progress and joy that help us stay grounded amidst big changes. We discuss how the brain tends to imagine worst-case scenarios when facing uncertainty and how to overcome that by staying curious and gathering information. By the end of the episode, you’ll gain actionable advice on how to pause, breathe, and assess situations before moving forward during times of change.
 
Meet my guest: Jessica Jacobs is a change and transformation expert who has built a successful career helping individuals and organizations navigate transitions. She is the founder of a blog that supports new and expecting moms, helping them stay in the workforce, and managing partner of Three Keys Consulting, where she helps businesses manage change effectively. With her client-focused approach and ability to tailor strategies to each unique situation, Jessica’s expertise spans across various industries, making her a leader in strategic transformations. In this episode, she shares her wisdom on balancing work, family, and personal growth while embracing change with confidence.
 
Quote/Piece of Advice: When you're faced with the change, it's okay to pause, breathe, and look around and assess the situation before you move forward.
 
Connect: LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessicamjacobs/ Website:http://www.3-kc.com/ 
 
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffectCoach or @KatPolsinelli 
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.comAND Join our Facebook Community 👇https://www.facebook.com/groups/thelotuseffectgroup

Friday Oct 18, 2024

In this episode, we dive deep into financial planning and business strategies with Alissa, who shares key insights on revamping processes for a better client experience. Alissa breaks down the concept of good vs. bad debt, explaining that "cheap" debt like mortgages or student loans can be beneficial, while high-interest debt should be prioritized for repayment. We also cover valuable tips on how to vet financial advisors and why it's essential to have an exit strategy to maximize the value of your business.
 
Meet my guest: Alissa is a seasoned financial expert who is passionate about helping entrepreneurs take control of their finances and plan for the future. With years of experience in guiding business owners through the complexities of financial planning, Alissa emphasizes a tailored approach, ensuring that her clients not only manage their debt effectively but also build sustainable wealth.Alissa is also an advocate for planning ahead, especially when it comes to an exit strategy. Whether it’s transitioning to a junior partner or selling the business, Alissa helps entrepreneurs identify how to extract value from the equity they’ve built up over time, ensuring a successful transition when the time comes.
 
Quote/Piece of Advice: What is meant for me will not miss me. Rejection just means redirection.
 
Connect: LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/alissatodd/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alissatodd_/ 
Resource (to look up advisors): https://www.finra.org/ 
 
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffectCoach or @KatPolsinelli 
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.comAND Join our Facebook Community 👇https://www.facebook.com/groups/thelotuseffectgroup

Friday Oct 11, 2024

In this episode, we explore the importance of maintaining a positive mindset and avoiding burnout. Phil Davis, a seasoned career coach, shares his valuable insights on strategies to combat burnout and find fulfillment in your career. We discuss the significance of taking breaks, engaging in self-care activities, and building a supportive network. Plus, listen to us talk about real life moment of struggle we have dealt with and how we have worked through them, just like you can.
 
Meet my guest: Meet Phil Davis, a dedicated career coach who specializes in helping individuals discover their most fulfilling career path. With years of experience, Phil has a proven track record of guiding clients towards success. He offers personalized coaching services, including resume optimization, interview preparation, and networking strategies. Phil's passion for helping others achieve their career goals is evident in his approach.
 
Quote/Piece of Advice: You are never alone. If you are in a place of struggle, reach out to somebody, ask for help….because you are never alone.
 
Connect: LinkedIn > http://www.linkedin.com/in/phil-the-recruiter Website: http://www.fulphillment.com/
 
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffectCoach or @KatPolsinelli 
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.comAND Join our Facebook Community 👇https://www.facebook.com/groups/thelotuseffectgroup

Friday Oct 04, 2024

In this episode, we dive into the world of confidence building with the inspiring Julie DeLucca-Collins. As a seasoned business strategist, Julie shares her expertise on cultivating self-belief, overcoming self-doubt, and taking action towards your goals. We discuss the power of habits, the importance of celebrating small wins, and effective networking strategies. Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur or looking to boost your confidence in any area of life, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice.
 
Meet my guest: Julie DeLucca-Collins, a leading authority on empowering women entrepreneurs. With a background as a former C-level executive, Julie brings a wealth of experience to her role as a business coach and author. Her passion for helping others achieve their dreams shines through in her work, and her insights on building confidence and creating a successful business are invaluable. Julie's TEDx talks and media appearances have made her a sought-after expert in the field.
 
Quote/Piece of Advice: Go confidently in the direction of your dreams.
 
Connect: https://www.linkedin.com/in/goconfidentlyjulie/  OR https://www.instagram.com/julie_deluccacollins/ Her Website: https://www.goconfidentlycoaching.com Free Resources: https://www.goconfidentlycoaching.com/quicklinks 
 
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffectCoach or @KatPolsinelli 
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.comAND Join our Facebook Community 👇https://www.facebook.com/groups/thelotuseffectgroup

Friday Sep 27, 2024

In this episode we sit down with Nana Ponceleon, a dynamic woman who seamlessly blends her corporate background with her passions for acting and coaching. Nana shares her inspiring journey from the high-paced world of Microsoft to the spotlight and the coaching world. We dive into the concept of feminine and masculine energy, exploring how balancing these forces can lead to greater fulfillment and well-being. Additionally, Nana discusses the importance of supporting men's mental health and the need for a more balanced approach to gender roles.
 
Meet my guest: Nana Ponceleon, a multifaceted individual who wears many hats. With a strong foundation in business and technology, Nana made a bold leap into the world of acting, showcasing her versatility and talent on stage. Her personal journey led her to become a balance and restoration coach, where she empowers individuals to harness their full potential. Nana's unique perspective on gender dynamics and her commitment to creating a more balanced world make her a truly inspiring guest.
 
Quote/Piece of Advice: Biology roles and energies are different and we should use our energies as needed. So understand the moment you are in right now and become aware of what energy is needed in that moment.
 
Connect: On LinkedIn - http://www.linkedin.com/in/nana-ponceleon-b17272/
OR On Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/nanaponceleon/
Her Website: https://www.nanaponceleon.com/ 
Book Recommendation: The Boy Crisis by Warren Ferrell
 
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffectCoach or @KatPolsinelli 
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.comAND Join our Facebook Community 👇https://www.facebook.com/groups/thelotuseffectgroup

Friday Sep 20, 2024

In this episode Deb Krier shares her inspiring journey as a breast cancer survivor. She opens up about the challenges she faced, including multiple surgeries and the importance of a strong support system. You'll also hear practical advice on how to advocate for yourself and maintain a positive mindset during difficult times. Deb's story is a powerful reminder of the human spirit's resilience.
 
Meet my guest: Deb Krier, a cancer advocate, entrepreneur, and breast cancer survivor. With a passion for empowering others, Deb founded tryingnottodie.LIVE to support individuals navigating the complexities of cancer. Her personal experience combined with her professional background makes her a valuable resource for anyone facing a health challenge.
 
Quote/Piece of Advice: Fate says to the warrior, you cannot withstand the storm. And the warrior responds, I am the storm.
 
Connect: https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborahkrier/
Website: https://tryingnottodie.live/Online Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1465660477225232 
 
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffectCoach or @KatPolsinelli 
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.comAND Join our Facebook Community 👇https://www.facebook.com/groups/thelotuseffectgroup

Friday Sep 13, 2024

In this episode Anneliese and Dustin Vance share their inspiring journey from overcoming adversity to building a successful business. Discover how they balanced family life with entrepreneurship, and gain valuable insights into building strong client relationships. You won't want to miss their practical advice for small business owners.
 
Meet my guests: Anneliese and Dustin Vance, the dynamic duo behind Never Miss a Moment Consulting. As experienced entrepreneurs and parents, they offer a unique perspective on balancing work and family life. Anneliese, a seasoned sales expert, and Dustin, a digital marketing pro, have created a thriving business built on trust and strong client relationships.
 
Quote/Piece of Advice:
Dustin: Lead with character and profit will follow. Lead with values first and you will attract the clients you want.
Anneliese: If you try to build authenticity, you will build authority along the way. And so my advice is don't be afraid to put your values out there.
 
Connect: On LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anneliesemvance/ 
Their Website: https://www.nevermissamomentconsulting.com/ 
 
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffectCoach or @KatPolsinelli 
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.comAND Join our Facebook Community 👇https://www.facebook.com/groups/thelotuseffectgroup

Friday Sep 06, 2024

In this episode we dive deep into the world of entrepreneurship and community building with Sabrina Victoria, founder of Her Nation Global. Learn how to pivot your business, create a supportive community for women, and overcome challenges to achieve success. Sabrina shares valuable insights on building strong connections, finding your purpose, and embracing your entrepreneurial spirit.
 
Meet my guest: Sabrina Victoria is a dynamic entrepreneur and community builder with a passion for empowering women. She is the founder of Her Nation, a thriving platform dedicated to supporting women business owners. With a background in sales and a proven track record of success, Sabrina brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to the table. Her infectious energy and inspiring story make her a true role model for aspiring entrepreneurs.
 
Quote/Piece of Advice: Start with silence & a breath….Then say: Everything is going to be ok.
 
Connect: On Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/sabrinavictoriatv  
Her Online Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/hernation.life
Her Website:https://www.hernation.life/ 
 
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffectCoach or @KatPolsinelli 
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.comAND Join our Facebook Community 👇https://www.facebook.com/groups/thelotuseffectgroup

Friday Aug 30, 2024

In this episode we talk with the wonderful Jenn Espinosa-Goswami, a weight loss expert turned public speaking coach. Learn how to transform your personal story into a powerful platform, craft compelling speeches that resonate with your audience, and build a thriving coaching business. Discover the importance of audience connection, permission-based coaching, and self-love in achieving speaking success.
 
Meet my guest: Jenn Espinosa-Goswami is a dynamic entrepreneur and ICF-certified public speaking coach. After overcoming personal challenges, she founded Weightless LLC to help others transform their lives. With a background in leadership and a passion for empowering others, Jenn has become a sought-after speaker and coach. Her expertise in crafting impactful speeches and building strong client relationships is invaluable for anyone looking to elevate their public speaking game.
 
Quote/Piece of Advice: “If you don't love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else?” by RuPaul
 
Connect: On LinkedIn or Instagram http://www.linkedin.com/in/jego3  OR  http://www.instagram.com/jennspingo
Her Website: http://www.weightlesschronicles.com/ 
 
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffectCoach or @KatPolsinelli 
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.comAND Join our Facebook Community 👇https://www.facebook.com/groups/thelotuseffectgroup

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Who is Kat? 

From stepping onto a stage at 10 years old to stepping out of a decade-long abusive relationship, Kat Polsinelli’s journey is one of resilience and transformation. Now a sought-after speaker, bestselling co-author, and host of Real Chat with Kat—a top 10% globally ranked podcast airing on four radio stations and 2 public TV stations—she is on a mission to shed light on the unseen wounds of emotional and psychological abuse while empowering others to reclaim their strength.

A survivor of domestic violence, PTSD, and single motherhood at 16, Kat speaks with raw honesty about the lasting impact of trauma, the power of boundaries, and how self-worth plays a critical role in healing. Through her personal story of leaving and rebuilding, she challenges audiences to rethink what they know about abusive relationships, fostering a deeper understanding of the complexities survivors face.

Kat’s powerful voice has made her a sought-after speaker for colleges, healthcare professionals, and law enforcement, equipping them with the knowledge to support survivors and create meaningful change. She has been featured in NashvilleVoyager, CanvasRebel, and Her Nation and has taken the stage at universities, domestic violence awareness events, and criminal justice panels. With a no-nonsense approach and a compassionate heart, Kat sparks conversations, challenges perspectives, and brings light to even the darkest moments.

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