Real Chat with Kat

Welcome to Real Chat with Kat — the podcast that’s all about real conversations for real transformation. I’m your host, Kat Polsinelli, and here we tackle the tough stuff — the pivots, the challenges, and the victories that shape our lives and businesses. From overcoming trauma and finding your voice to navigating life’s unexpected twists, we get raw, honest, and open with inspiring guests who share their stories of resilience, healing, and growth. Whether it’s breaking through emotional abuse, embracing self-worth, or thriving in entrepreneurship, you’ll find connection, empowerment, and tools to keep moving forward. So grab your favorite drink, settle in, and get ready for stories that hit home and conversations that make a difference. Let’s get real — together!

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2 hours ago

54 min

In this episode
Kat sits down with Leisa Reid, The Speaking Strategy Mentor, for an inspiring conversation about Meeting Purpose and finding the courage to use your voice. Together, they explore what it really takes to move past the fear of public speaking and step into authentic, confident communication.
Kat and Leisa talk about why you should embody your message instead of memorizing it, how starting small can lead to big opportunities, and why your slides are simply the accessories — you are the presentation. They also dive into preparation, practice, connecting with an audience, adapting to different speaking environments, and shifting your focus from how you're being perceived to the value you're there to share.
Most importantly, this conversation is a reminder that when the value of your message becomes bigger than your fear, everything can change. Your voice matters, your message matters, and there may be someone who needs exactly what you have to say.
Meet my guest
Leisa Reid is known as The Speaking Strategy Mentor and is the Founder of Get Speaking Gigs Now™ and CEO of the International Speaker Network™. With more than 600 talks delivered and nine books authored, Leisa helps business owners expand their impact beyond one-on-one work through the power of speaking.
Leisa believes speaking isn't simply about giving a great talk — it's about creating a strategy to get booked, stay booked, and attract clients through the lifetime of your business. Her down-to-earth approach helps experts confidently share their message, grow their business, and create the impact they were meant to make — without the pressure to be perfect or “salesy.”
When she isn't mentoring speakers, Leisa enjoys 80s music, live concerts, and life in Southern California with her family.
Quote/Piece of Advice: Do what makes your heart sing. That's really why we're here.
Connect with Leisa:
Website: https://GetSpeakingGigsNow.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leisareid/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leisa.reid.2/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getspeakinggigsnow/
To connect with your host Kat:@KatPolsinelliMy Website: www.the-lotus-effect.comSubscribe to my Youtube Channel 👇https://www.youtube.com/@the-lotus-effect
 

2 hours ago

54 min

Sep 4, 2026

55 min

In this episode
What happens when you stop living for everyone else’s expectations and start trusting yourself? In this powerful conversation, Wendy Hutchinson and I dive into intuition, self-trust, trauma, energy, quantum healing, and the courage it takes to reclaim your authentic self.
We explore why intuition isn’t a special gift reserved for a select few, how unresolved trauma can continue to weigh us down, and what it looks like to release the expectations and patterns that keep us from living fully as ourselves. Wendy also shares her unique perspectives on quantum healing, self-actualization, and learning to recognize and trust those inner nudges.
Meet my guest
Wendy Hutchinson is a Wisdom Keeper, Quantum Soul Healer, Soul Guide, Author, Podcast Host, and owner of Alinea Life Coaching. Her own journey of transformation began with a powerful message: “Save yourself.” That wake-up call led her to peel away years of people-pleasing, expectations, and conditioning and reconnect with her authentic self.
Today, Wendy helps others energetically clear trauma and reconnect their mind, body, and soul. Through her work, she encourages people to release unhealthy family and cultural patterns, trust their intuition, and step more fully into their purpose.
Quote/Piece of Advice: You're not here to be a version of you that meets someone else's expectations. You're here to be you.
Connect with Wendy:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wendy.hutchinson.50Website & Podcast: https://linktr.ee/WendyHutchInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mamahutch47/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WendyHutchinson444To connect with your host Kat: @TheLotusEffect or @KatPolsinelliMy Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com Subscribe to my Youtube Channel 👇https://www.youtube.com/@the-lotus-effect

Sep 4, 2026

55 min

Aug 28, 2026

59 min

In this episode
What does it really mean to build a personal brand that reflects who you are, not just what you do? Kat and Marina Byezhanova dive into personal branding, authentic storytelling, and the fears that often keep entrepreneurs and leaders from sharing their stories.
Marina shares why your story is the setting and your message is the main character, along with insights on AI search, earned media, visibility, and why authenticity starts with having the courage to show up as yourself.
Meet my guest
Marina Byezhanova is the Co-Founder & CEO of Brand of a Leader, a personal branding agency serving entrepreneurs and executives across 12 countries. A member of the Entrepreneurs' Organization for 11 years and Chair of the first EO Women Global Summit, Marina is known for her candid approach to leadership and her contrarian perspective on entrepreneurship.
She speaks and writes about personal branding, authentic leadership, and the real emotional experience of being a founder. In this conversation, Marina brings her honesty, expertise, and fresh perspective to building a personal brand that truly reflects you.
Quote/Piece of Advice: Have the courage to put yourself out there. Stand out, speak up, and be radically authentic.
Connect with Marina:
Website: www.brandofaleader.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bmarina/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marinabyezhanova/https://www.instagram.com/brandofaleader/
To connect with your host Kat: @TheLotusEffect or @KatPolsinelliMy Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com Subscribe to my Youtube Channel 👇https://www.youtube.com/@the-lotus-effect

Aug 28, 2026

59 min

Aug 21, 2026

49 min

In this episode
What if burnout isn’t just mental or emotional—but physiological? In this episode of Real Chat with Kat, we dive into the connection between chronic stress, burnout, gut health, and the way our bodies respond when we’ve been running on empty for too long. We talk about the “fight or flight” response, how chronic stress can impact digestion, immunity, energy, focus, and overall well-being, and why finding the root cause matters.
We also explore the powerful gut-brain connection, functional health and testing, electrolytes, and practical ways to better support your body. Jessica shares the concept of your body having a “bank account”—with healthy habits making deposits and chronic stress, poor sleep, and inflammation making withdrawals. When those withdrawals consistently outweigh the deposits, your body eventually becomes overdrawn.
 
Meet my guest
Jessica Van Antoine has been guiding people toward better health since 2009 through massage therapy, yoga, retreats, and now high-level health strategy. As a Functional Diagnostic Nutrition Practitioner, she combines strategic lab testing with personalized coaching to uncover the hidden stressors that may be quietly impacting your health, energy, and ability to thrive.
Jessica brings a deeply personal perspective to this work. After experiencing her own breaking point while working 90-hour weeks despite maintaining a healthy lifestyle, she discovered that burnout can go much deeper than mindset alone. Today, she helps people understand their unique biology and address root causes rather than relying on one-size-fits-all solutions.
As Jessica says, “Your body isn’t the bottleneck. It’s the opportunity.”
Quote/Piece of Advice: Your body has the innate intelligence to heal itself unless it does not have their resources.
 
Connect with Jessica:
LinkedIn, Website 
Adrenal Mocktail: https://phoenixfunctionalhealth.com/adrenal-mocktail-guide?utm_source=real_chat_with_kat&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=adrenal_mocktail&utm_content=show_notes
To connect with your host Kat:@TheLotusEffect or @KatPolsinelliMy Website: www.the-lotus-effect.comSubscribe to my Youtube Channel 👇https://www.youtube.com/@the-lotus-effect

Aug 21, 2026

49 min

Aug 14, 2026

50 min

In this episode
What if you stopped waiting to feel motivated and simply started? In this episode of Real Chat with Kat, we dive into the powerful idea that meaningful change doesn’t have to begin with a giant leap—it can begin with just 30 seconds.
We explore the 30-Second Method, building self-trust by keeping small promises to yourself, taking action before motivation arrives, and shifting from “I want to be” to “I am.” We also talk about comparison, community, identity, and what it really takes to keep moving forward when life doesn’t go according to plan.
Meet my guest
Robyn Godfrey is a TEDx speaker, keynote speaker, author, and creator of The 30-Second Shift™ methodology. After more than 20 years in corporate sales, Robyn decided to make a change. At 47, she started running with just 30 seconds on a treadmill—a tiny decision that eventually led her to complete all six World Marathon Majors and write her bestselling memoir, Running the World.
Robyn’s journey is about so much more than running. Through hurricanes, a global pandemic, wildfires, an earthquake, and supporting her husband through Stage 4 throat cancer, she continued pursuing a goal that once seemed impossible. Her story is a powerful reminder that you don’t have to be naturally talented, perfectly prepared, or endlessly motivated to create extraordinary change. Sometimes, you just need to find your 30 seconds—and start.
Quote/Piece of Advice: Find what your 30 seconds is. If you are wanting to accomplish a certain go or dream, you can totally do it.
 
Connect with Robyn:
Facebook, LinkedIn, Instagram, YoutubeRobyn's Book: https://www.amazon.com/Running-Runners-Odyssey-Struggle-Marathon/dp/B0F8T82X9LTEDx Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E1xUzBNJQgc&list=PLGGJ7mwdsniwTo connect with your host Kat:@TheLotusEffect or @KatPolsinelliMy Website: www.the-lotus-effect.comSubscribe to my Youtube Channel 👇https://www.youtube.com/@the-lotus-effect
 

Aug 14, 2026

50 min

Aug 7, 2026

56 min

In this episode
What if AI wasn't meant to think for you—but to help you understand yourself better?
In this episode of Real Chat with Kat, Diana Lee shares a refreshing perspective on using AI as a tool for self-reflection rather than a replacement for critical thinking. We explore how AI can help uncover unconscious patterns, clarify your values, and support personal growth when used with intention. This conversation is a powerful reminder that the greatest transformation isn't found in technology—it's found in how we choose to grow.
Meet my guest
Diana Lee is the founder of Waggle.ai, an advisor, educator, and entrepreneur who helps founders, leaders, and organizations navigate the intersection of AI, technology, and human potential. Her work empowers people to embrace change, build clarity, and use AI to amplify their authentic voice while staying grounded in their values.
Quote/Piece of Advice: Give yourself permission to want a different kind of life and want something more.
Connect with Diana:
Website: https://waggle.aiWebsite: https://dianaleeai.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dianaleeaiInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dianalee.aiTo connect with your host Kat:@TheLotusEffect or @KatPolsinelliMy Website: www.the-lotus-effect.comSubscribe to my Youtube Channel 👇https://www.youtube.com/@the-lotus-effect

Aug 7, 2026

56 min

Kat Polsinelli 

Speaker | DV Advocate | Community Builder

 

What if the life you're living was never fully chosen by you?

For most people, the answer to that question lands somewhere uncomfortable. Because the truth is — most of us are out here living by someone else's script. The beliefs we were handed as kids. The roles we were assigned — unconsciously. The version of ourselves we built just to survive.

Kat Polsinelli knows that territory well. As a DV survivor, a single mother, and someone who had to burn the old script down before she could write her own — she built The Dragon Reclaimed Community for the people who are done performing who they were told to be and ready to step into who they actually choose to be.

She is a TEDx speaker, 2x International Bestselling Co-Author, and host of Real Chat with Kat — a top 5% globally ranked podcast airing on 6 radio stations across 6 states. But what people remember most isn't the credentials. It's that she's already been where they're standing. And she knows the way through.