Real Chat with Kat

Welcome to Real Chat with Kat — the podcast that’s all about real conversations for real transformation. I’m your host, Kat Polsinelli, and here we tackle the tough stuff — the pivots, the challenges, and the victories that shape our lives and businesses. From overcoming trauma and finding your voice to navigating life’s unexpected twists, we get raw, honest, and open with inspiring guests who share their stories of resilience, healing, and growth. Whether it’s breaking through emotional abuse, embracing self-worth, or thriving in entrepreneurship, you’ll find connection, empowerment, and tools to keep moving forward. So grab your favorite drink, settle in, and get ready for stories that hit home and conversations that make a difference. Let’s get real — together!

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4 days ago

59 min

In this episode
What does it really mean to build a personal brand that reflects who you are, not just what you do? Kat and Marina Byezhanova dive into personal branding, authentic storytelling, and the fears that often keep entrepreneurs and leaders from sharing their stories.
Marina shares why your story is the setting and your message is the main character, along with insights on AI search, earned media, visibility, and why authenticity starts with having the courage to show up as yourself.
Meet my guest
Marina Byezhanova is the Co-Founder & CEO of Brand of a Leader, a personal branding agency serving entrepreneurs and executives across 12 countries. A member of the Entrepreneurs' Organization for 11 years and Chair of the first EO Women Global Summit, Marina is known for her candid approach to leadership and her contrarian perspective on entrepreneurship.
She speaks and writes about personal branding, authentic leadership, and the real emotional experience of being a founder. In this conversation, Marina brings her honesty, expertise, and fresh perspective to building a personal brand that truly reflects you.
Quote/Piece of Advice: Have the courage to put yourself out there. Stand out, speak up, and be radically authentic.
Connect with Marina:
Website: www.brandofaleader.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bmarina/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marinabyezhanova/https://www.instagram.com/brandofaleader/
To connect with your host Kat: @TheLotusEffect or @KatPolsinelliMy Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com Subscribe to my Youtube Channel 👇https://www.youtube.com/@the-lotus-effect

4 days ago

59 min

Aug 21, 2026

49 min

In this episode
What if burnout isn’t just mental or emotional—but physiological? In this episode of Real Chat with Kat, we dive into the connection between chronic stress, burnout, gut health, and the way our bodies respond when we’ve been running on empty for too long. We talk about the “fight or flight” response, how chronic stress can impact digestion, immunity, energy, focus, and overall well-being, and why finding the root cause matters.
We also explore the powerful gut-brain connection, functional health and testing, electrolytes, and practical ways to better support your body. Jessica shares the concept of your body having a “bank account”—with healthy habits making deposits and chronic stress, poor sleep, and inflammation making withdrawals. When those withdrawals consistently outweigh the deposits, your body eventually becomes overdrawn.
 
Meet my guest
Jessica Van Antoine has been guiding people toward better health since 2009 through massage therapy, yoga, retreats, and now high-level health strategy. As a Functional Diagnostic Nutrition Practitioner, she combines strategic lab testing with personalized coaching to uncover the hidden stressors that may be quietly impacting your health, energy, and ability to thrive.
Jessica brings a deeply personal perspective to this work. After experiencing her own breaking point while working 90-hour weeks despite maintaining a healthy lifestyle, she discovered that burnout can go much deeper than mindset alone. Today, she helps people understand their unique biology and address root causes rather than relying on one-size-fits-all solutions.
As Jessica says, “Your body isn’t the bottleneck. It’s the opportunity.”
Quote/Piece of Advice: Your body has the innate intelligence to heal itself unless it does not have their resources.
 
Connect with Jessica:
LinkedIn, Website 
Adrenal Mocktail: https://phoenixfunctionalhealth.com/adrenal-mocktail-guide?utm_source=real_chat_with_kat&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=adrenal_mocktail&utm_content=show_notes
To connect with your host Kat:@TheLotusEffect or @KatPolsinelliMy Website: www.the-lotus-effect.comSubscribe to my Youtube Channel 👇https://www.youtube.com/@the-lotus-effect

Aug 21, 2026

49 min

Aug 14, 2026

50 min

In this episode
What if you stopped waiting to feel motivated and simply started? In this episode of Real Chat with Kat, we dive into the powerful idea that meaningful change doesn’t have to begin with a giant leap—it can begin with just 30 seconds.
We explore the 30-Second Method, building self-trust by keeping small promises to yourself, taking action before motivation arrives, and shifting from “I want to be” to “I am.” We also talk about comparison, community, identity, and what it really takes to keep moving forward when life doesn’t go according to plan.
Meet my guest
Robyn Godfrey is a TEDx speaker, keynote speaker, author, and creator of The 30-Second Shift™ methodology. After more than 20 years in corporate sales, Robyn decided to make a change. At 47, she started running with just 30 seconds on a treadmill—a tiny decision that eventually led her to complete all six World Marathon Majors and write her bestselling memoir, Running the World.
Robyn’s journey is about so much more than running. Through hurricanes, a global pandemic, wildfires, an earthquake, and supporting her husband through Stage 4 throat cancer, she continued pursuing a goal that once seemed impossible. Her story is a powerful reminder that you don’t have to be naturally talented, perfectly prepared, or endlessly motivated to create extraordinary change. Sometimes, you just need to find your 30 seconds—and start.
Quote/Piece of Advice: Find what your 30 seconds is. If you are wanting to accomplish a certain go or dream, you can totally do it.
 
Connect with Robyn:
Facebook, LinkedIn, Instagram, YoutubeRobyn's Book: https://www.amazon.com/Running-Runners-Odyssey-Struggle-Marathon/dp/B0F8T82X9LTEDx Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E1xUzBNJQgc&list=PLGGJ7mwdsniwTo connect with your host Kat:@TheLotusEffect or @KatPolsinelliMy Website: www.the-lotus-effect.comSubscribe to my Youtube Channel 👇https://www.youtube.com/@the-lotus-effect
 

Aug 14, 2026

50 min

Aug 7, 2026

56 min

In this episode
What if AI wasn't meant to think for you—but to help you understand yourself better?
In this episode of Real Chat with Kat, Diana Lee shares a refreshing perspective on using AI as a tool for self-reflection rather than a replacement for critical thinking. We explore how AI can help uncover unconscious patterns, clarify your values, and support personal growth when used with intention. This conversation is a powerful reminder that the greatest transformation isn't found in technology—it's found in how we choose to grow.
Meet my guest
Diana Lee is the founder of Waggle.ai, an advisor, educator, and entrepreneur who helps founders, leaders, and organizations navigate the intersection of AI, technology, and human potential. Her work empowers people to embrace change, build clarity, and use AI to amplify their authentic voice while staying grounded in their values.
Quote/Piece of Advice: Give yourself permission to want a different kind of life and want something more.
Connect with Diana:
Website: https://waggle.aiWebsite: https://dianaleeai.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dianaleeaiInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dianalee.aiTo connect with your host Kat:@TheLotusEffect or @KatPolsinelliMy Website: www.the-lotus-effect.comSubscribe to my Youtube Channel 👇https://www.youtube.com/@the-lotus-effect

Aug 7, 2026

56 min

Jul 31, 2026

44 min

In this episode, we explore what it truly means to live with intention and build a life that feels as good as it looks.
Elle Ballard shares her remarkable journey from leading billion-dollar oil and gas projects to creating a thriving global community for multinational women entrepreneurs. Together, we discuss the power of conscious living, holistic life planning, embodiment practices like dance, and letting go of society's "shoulds" to make room for genuine fulfillment.
This conversation is filled with practical tools, heartfelt wisdom, and powerful insights to help you align your personal and professional life while reconnecting with your purpose.
Meet my guest: Elle Ballard is a powerhouse entrepreneur, speaker, and author who brings decades of international leadership experience into her mission to empower women across the globe. With members from over 23 countries, her Women of the World Network provides a unique space for women in business to thrive while embracing every part of who they are. Elle combines strategy, soul, and embodiment to help others create success that’s deeply aligned—and she’s on a mission to impact 50,000 women in the next five years. Her story and perspective will leave you inspired to pause, reflect, and take aligned action in your own life.
Quote/Piece of Advice: Enrich your life and inspire others to do the same.
Connect with Elle
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elleballard/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theelleballardWebsite: elleballard.com
To connect with your host Kat:@TheLotusEffect or @KatPolsinelliMy Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com
Subscribe to my Youtube Channel 👇 https://www.youtube.com/@katpolsinelli
 

Jul 31, 2026

44 min

Jul 24, 2026

55 min

🔁 REPLAY EPISODE
We're bringing back one of our most impactful conversations! Whether you're listening for the first time or revisiting this episode, this replay is filled with timeless insights on purpose, healing, and personal transformation.
In this episode, Kat sits down with Ann Jonas, also known as The Love Messenger, for a soul-stirring conversation about the spiritual journey we're all walking. Together, they explore how life's challenges—the "mud"—aren't obstacles to avoid, but invitations to grow.
Ann shares how slowing down, embracing authenticity over perfection, and shifting from a victim mindset to a creator mindset can completely transform the way we experience life. Through vulnerability, presence, and a deeper connection with ourselves, we discover greater freedom, purpose, and inner peace.
Meet my guest: Ann Jonas, also known as The Love Messenger, is the founder of The Lotus Path — a space devoted to guiding others back to their true, spiritual nature. With over 25 years of experience as an intuitive bodyworker and birth doula, Ann brings a grounded, holistic approach to healing and growth. Her work centers on helping people walk through life’s most difficult moments with grace, compassion, and curiosity, using them as catalysts for transformation. Through virtual offerings, one-on-one sessions, and her 9-week Sacred Connection program, Ann supports seekers ready to remember who they truly are.
Quote/Piece of Advice: My job here, your job here is….the Joy Of Being. J.O.B.Connect with Ann:
Youtube, Facebook, LinkedIn, Instagram, Website
To connect with your host Kat:@TheLotusEffect or @KatPolsinelli
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com
Subscribe to my Youtube Channel 👇https://www.youtube.com/@the-lotus-effect
 

Jul 24, 2026

55 min

Kat Polsinelli 

Speaker | DV Advocate | Community Builder

 

What if the life you're living was never fully chosen by you?

For most people, the answer to that question lands somewhere uncomfortable. Because the truth is — most of us are out here living by someone else's script. The beliefs we were handed as kids. The roles we were assigned — unconsciously. The version of ourselves we built just to survive.

Kat Polsinelli knows that territory well. As a DV survivor, a single mother, and someone who had to burn the old script down before she could write her own — she built The Dragon Reclaimed Community for the people who are done performing who they were told to be and ready to step into who they actually choose to be.

She is a TEDx speaker, 2x International Bestselling Co-Author, and host of Real Chat with Kat — a top 5% globally ranked podcast airing on 6 radio stations across 6 states. But what people remember most isn't the credentials. It's that she's already been where they're standing. And she knows the way through.