Real Chat with Kat

Welcome to Real Chat with Kat — the podcast that’s all about real conversations for real transformation.

I’m your host, Kat Polsinelli, and here we tackle the tough stuff — the pivots, the challenges, and the victories that shape our lives and businesses.

From overcoming trauma and finding your voice to navigating life’s unexpected twists, we get raw, honest, and open with inspiring guests who share their stories of resilience, healing, and growth. Whether it’s breaking through emotional abuse, embracing self-worth, or thriving in entrepreneurship, you’ll find connection, empowerment, and tools to keep moving forward.

So grab your favorite drink, settle in, and get ready for stories that hit home and conversations that make a difference. Let’s get real — together!

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Episodes

4 days ago

In this episode: We dive into the transformative power of holistic health and wellness with a focus on midlife and beyond. Annika Ek, a seasoned Evolutionary Nutritionist, shares her personal journey from struggling with digestive issues to embracing a natural approach to healing. She introduces us to her unique Evolutionary Nutrition™ framework, a powerful 3-part approach to sustainable wellness. We explore the key elements of self-compassion, understanding one’s genetic and metabolic needs, and overcoming inner resistance to make lasting changes. Annika also provides insights into the profound hormonal shifts women experience during perimenopause and menopause, describing it as "puberty in reverse." This episode is packed with practical advice and empowering perspectives for anyone navigating the inner transformations.
 
Meet my guest: Meet Annika Ek, R.H.N., the inspiring mind behind Evolutionary Nutrition™ and the founder of TrulyU Evolutionary Nutrition. Annika’s holistic approach combines modern science with ancient wisdom, helping women reach their health and life goals through deep, lasting transformation. With a dedication to supporting women through midlife’s unique challenges, Annika emphasizes letting go of societal expectations and embracing this next chapter with authenticity and self-compassion. Through her community programs and expert insights, she guides her clients toward health practices that help them rediscover purpose and passion. Join us as Annika shares her wisdom on health, habits, and stepping fully into your next self.
 
Quote/Piece of Advice: It’s the habits that you create, that lead you to making the choices that will shape your life.
 
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annikaek/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evolutionary_nutrition/
Website: https://www.trulyu.com/
 
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffect or @KatPolsinelli
 
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com
 
Subscribe to my Youtube Channel 👇
https://www.youtube.com/@the-lotus-effect
 

Friday Jan 02, 2026

In this episode: We dive into sustainable health habits for 2026 and why resolutions rarely work. I share practical strategies to help you build simple, stackable routines that actually stick, combat decision fatigue, and make healthy eating easier with short, effective ingredient prep. We also discuss the 80/20 rule for balanced eating, enjoyable movement for women over 40, and mindset shifts that help you focus on personal health, self-love, and long-term wellness. This episode is full of actionable tips to help you stop starting over and finally create habits that support an upgraded, maintainable lifestyle.
 
Meet my guest: Claudia Isla is a Holistic Health Coach empowering busy women over 40 to drop unwanted inches and pounds for good — without restrictive diets or grueling workouts. Compassionate, practical, and inspiring, Claudia brings real-world strategies to help women feel strong, energized, and confident. In this conversation, she shares her wisdom on building sustainable routines, balancing nutrition, and creating a healthy lifestyle that fits real life.
 
Quote/Piece of Advice: It's so important to take an enjoyable approach to fitness.
 
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/claudia-isla-ba1a90358/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/la_isla_bonita777/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/coachclaudiaisla/
 
Get your free guide now: https://members.claudiaisla.com/break-up-with-junk
 
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffect or @KatPolsinelli
 
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com
 
Subscribe to my Youtube Channel 👇
https://www.youtube.com/@the-lotus-effect

Friday Dec 26, 2025

In this solo episode, I dive into what it truly means to heal out loud — with honesty, grace, and self-trust. As we move toward 2026, I invite you to rethink traditional ideas about healing, growth, and New Year’s resolutions. Healing isn’t quiet, it isn’t linear, and it definitely isn’t meant to happen in the shadows.
 
I share insights on why hiding struggles keeps us stuck in shame and isolation, and how being honest — even in small moments — creates validation, connection, and deeper growth. You’ll hear about real-life examples where old patterns surfaced, and how recognizing them isn’t failure but an opportunity to practice new responses and integrate lessons learned.
 
This episode also explores the importance of setting boundaries as you evolve, giving yourself grace through messy progress, and celebrating tiny victories with big energy. I challenge listeners to identify one truth they’re ready to embrace and one truth they’re ready to release, and to start small, imperfect, and unapologetically real on their healing journey.
 
Quote/Piece of Advice: You don't have to heal alone, and you are not the only one trying to heal alone.
 
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffect or @KatPolsinelli
 
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com
 
Subscribe to my Youtube Channel 👇
https://www.youtube.com/@the-lotus-effect

Friday Dec 19, 2025

In this episode: We dive into a powerful conversation about self-advocacy, emotional safety, and confident communication. I explore why so many of us internalize discomfort, blame ourselves for other people’s behavior, and struggle to speak up. From the power of assertive silence with communication saboteurs to scripting and rehearsing difficult conversations, this episode is packed with practical tools to help you reclaim your voice, set boundaries, and protect your peace. If you’ve ever felt labeled as “too much” or questioned whether your words matter, this conversation will remind you that your voice is important—and you’re allowed to use it.
 
Meet my guest: Joan Stenzler is a licensed psychotherapist, coach, and inspirational speaker with over 30 years of experience supporting women in finding their voice and embracing emotional safety. Warm, insightful, and deeply intuitive, Joan blends her expertise in psychotherapy, mindfulness, and body-centered healing to empower women to communicate confidently and advocate for themselves without guilt. In this episode, she shares actionable strategies for building confidence, navigating difficult conversations, and surrounding yourself with supportive, positive energy. Joan’s guidance is both practical and inspiring, offering listeners a roadmap to authentic self-expression and personal sovereignty.
 
Quote/Piece of Advice: You're not weak. You're not weak for crying. You're not weak for feeling. You're not weak for being.
 
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/joan.stenzler/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stenzlerjoan/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joan-stenzler-lcsw-sep-8155827/
Website: https://www.youramazingjourney.com
 
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffect or @KatPolsinelli
 
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com
 
Subscribe to my Youtube Channel 👇
https://www.youtube.com/@the-lotus-effect

Friday Dec 12, 2025

In this episode: Kat and her guest dive into a powerful conversation about what it really means to show up authentically in life and business. Together, they explore the concept of Message Sovereignty—why protecting your human voice matters now more than ever—and how intuition can guide some of the most important decisions you’ll ever make. From trusting the quiet inner nudges to recognizing the transformative 35–40 Revelation that so many leaders experience, this episode offers a blend of depth, clarity, and practical wisdom. Listeners will walk away with a fresh perspective on authenticity, alignment, and the courage it takes to fully claim who you are in your work.
 
Meet my guest: This week’s guest, M. Shannon Hernandez, is a force in the world of authentic communication. A Messaging & Email Marketing Strategist, she helps purpose-driven founders protect and express their true voice through her Profit-Driven Messaging Ecosystem™. Shannon is a fierce advocate for human-centric messaging and stands boldly against watered-down, generic content. Her intuitive leadership, powerful storytelling, and unwavering commitment to authenticity make her a standout guide for anyone wanting to communicate with more clarity, depth, and truth. Featured nationally and respected globally, Shannon brings heart, strategy, and lived experience into every conversation—and this episode is no exception.
 
Quote/Piece of Advice: You have to be ready to stand in your truth whatever that truth is.
 
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mshannonhernandez/
Website: https://joyfulbusinessrevolution.com/media/
 
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffect or @KatPolsinelli
 
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com
 
Subscribe to my Youtube Channel 👇
https://www.youtube.com/@the-lotus-effect

Friday Dec 05, 2025

In this episode: We dive deep into the realities of burnout, feeling stuck, and how to pivot into a life that feels truly fulfilling. We explore why burnout isn’t just stress — it’s a signal that your growth has stalled, and how to recognize the signs before it takes over. From the “Sunday pit in your stomach” to the loss of excitement for projects that once sparked joy, we unpack what it really means to move beyond a default path and reclaim your sense of purpose.
 
You’ll hear practical tools and strategies for taking action, including the power of mindset work, curiosity, and celebrating small wins. Kellie shares how exercises like the Wheel of Life and Clarity Canvases can help you visualize your ideal future, build momentum, and make incremental progress toward meaningful change. This episode is packed with actionable insights for anyone ready to stop going through the motions and start living intentionally.
 
Meet my guest: I had the honor of speaking with Kellie Grutko, Founder and Chief Pivot Officer of Purposeful Pivot. After nearly 20 years in corporate marketing, Kellie experienced firsthand what it feels like to have a “dream job” yet feel unfulfilled. She used that experience to create Purposeful Pivot, a company dedicated to helping accomplished women move through corporate burnout, define their core values, and pivot toward lives that feel purposeful and joyful.
 
Kellie is a heart-centered coach, vision-focused strategist, and advocate for mindful transitions. In this conversation, she shares her personal journey, the tools she uses to guide her clients, and how embracing curiosity, self-honesty, and a supportive community can transform the overwhelming process of change into something inspiring, manageable, and deeply fulfilling.
 
Quote/Piece of Advice: Just dream big, work the small wins, and enjoy the journey.
 
Website: www.purposefulpivot.net
Linkedin: https://bit.ly/LinkedIn-PurposefulPivot
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PurposefulPivot/
 
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffect or @KatPolsinelli
 
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com
 
Subscribe to my Youtube Channel 👇
https://www.youtube.com/@the-lotus-effect

Friday Nov 28, 2025

In this episode: In this powerful and eye-opening conversation, we dive deep into the world of subconscious reprogramming and somatic healing with expert Krishna Avalon. Together, we explore how our early experiences shape the beliefs that silently guide our lives—and how gentle, body-centered practices can help us release old patterns and step into authentic alignment.
 
You’ll discover how 95% of our lives are influenced by the subconscious mind, what happens when trauma gets stored in the body, and why traditional talk therapy sometimes isn’t enough to create lasting change. Krishna shares her wisdom on PSYCH-K, neuroplasticity practices, and the importance of connecting the body’s sensations to the mind’s beliefs for deep, sustainable healing. This episode is an invitation to reprogram what no longer serves you, reconnect with your truth, and experience transformation with more ease and compassion.
 
Meet my guest: Krishna Avalon is a seasoned subconscious and somatic therapist, IFS practitioner, PSYCH-K facilitator, and licensed acupuncturist with over 22 years of experience guiding more than 30,000 people to their wellness goals. Her work bridges the gap between the mind and body, helping individuals heal trauma, regulate their nervous systems, and build new patterns of self-trust and authenticity.
 
Through her unique, heart-centered approach, Krishna empowers others to honor their needs, break cycles of people-pleasing, and create space for genuine self-love and connection. Her message reminds us that healing doesn’t have to be hard—it can be gentle, elegant, and profoundly freeing.
 
Quote/Piece of Advice: No matter what you've experienced or where you're at within your life, you are definitely worthy of the best that this love and life has to offer for you.
 
Website: www.krishnaavalon.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/krishnaavalon/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/krishnaavalon/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/krishnaavalon/
 
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffect or @KatPolsinelli
 
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com
 
Subscribe to my Youtube Channel 👇
https://www.youtube.com/@the-lotus-effect

Friday Nov 21, 2025

In this episode: In this solo episode, Kat Polsinelli gets real about one of the hardest lessons she’s learned — that silence isn’t protection, it’s a cage. For years, Kat believed staying quiet made her strong, especially after surviving a decade-long abusive relationship and rebuilding life as a single mom. But she discovered that silence only fed her shame, disconnected her from others, and stopped her healing. Now, she’s sharing that truth with the world.
 
Kat dives deep into how societal norms glorify “busy” and “strong,” teaching us to suppress emotions instead of honoring them. She breaks down how these beliefs create a culture of self-silencing, keeping us from true connection, rest, and authenticity. Through raw honesty and personal reflection, she reveals how vulnerability is not weakness — it’s an act of courage and self-preservation.
 
Listeners will learn how to start small by acknowledging their silent battles, journaling without judgment, and creating safe spaces for self-expression. Kat shares practical steps for breaking the cycle of silence and reframing vulnerability as proof that you’re alive, growing, and healing. This episode is both a heartfelt reminder and a powerful call to action: your silence doesn’t protect you — it only protects your pain from healing.
 
If you’ve ever felt trapped by the need to “stay strong,” this episode will remind you that strength isn’t about staying silent. It’s about finding your voice, honoring your truth, and rising above the noise with courage and heart.
 
Quote/Piece of Advice: What we don't face, we carry. And the longer that we carry it, the heavier that it gets.
 
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katpolsinelli
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thelotuseffect1
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thelotuseffectcoach
 
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffect or @KatPolsinelli
 
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com
 
Subscribe to my Youtube Channel 👇
https://www.youtube.com/@the-lotus-effect

Friday Nov 14, 2025

In this episode: What if one moment could completely change the direction of your life? In this powerful conversation, Jason Yarusi opens up about how a devastating car accident became the turning point that pushed him to break old patterns, rebuild his mindset, and create a life built on purpose and consistency. We dive into the lessons that came from his journey — from chaos and loss to structure and success — and how small, intentional actions can create massive, lasting results. Jason shares his “One More Mailbox” philosophy, the foundation of his Live 100 Framework, and how morning routines can help you take control of your day before the world even starts pulling at you. Whether you’re ending the year feeling stuck or ready to plan for the next chapter, this episode will help you reset, refocus, and take that next step toward the life you truly want.
 
Meet my guest: Jason Yarusi is a powerhouse entrepreneur, real estate investor, and transformation coach who knows firsthand what it means to rebuild from the ground up. After years of personal loss and chaotic living, a serious accident forced him to face a hard truth — if he wanted a different life, he had to take different actions. Today, Jason is the private fund manager of over $300 million in multifamily real estate, host of The Multifamily Live Podcast, creator of the Live 100 framework, and an ultra runner, husband, and father of three. His story is a powerful reminder that consistency beats chaos and that small, focused steps can lead to extraordinary outcomes.
 
Quote/Piece of Advice: Don't just keep learning, take the action and learn from the action.
 
Real estate: www.yarusiholdings.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JYarusi
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jasonyarusi/
 
🎧 Tune in here: https://open.spotify.com/show/2IfvjJDH1oBz0Gt5a3Khu9
 
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffect or @KatPolsinelli
 
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com
 
Subscribe to my Youtube Channel 👇
https://www.youtube.com/@the-lotus-effect

Friday Nov 07, 2025

In this episode: We dive into Andy’s journey from pain to purpose and explore actionable strategies for improving health and longevity. He shares insights on personalized nutrition, supplementation, detox practices, fasting, temperature therapy, and natural ways to stimulate the body’s healing mechanisms. Andy also emphasizes the importance of critical thinking when evaluating health advice and products, offering practical tips for anyone looking to take control of their health. This episode is packed with wisdom, inspiration, and actionable tools to help you feel stronger, think clearer, and live your best life.
Meet my guest: This week on Real Chat with Kat, I’m joined by the incredible Andy Nam — Functional Longevity Expert, bestselling author, and international speaker. Andy’s story is nothing short of inspiring. After surviving a severe car accident and years of chronic pain, he transformed his health through nutrition, lifestyle changes, and biohacking. Now, he’s on a mission to help a million people unlock their body’s innate healing potential and live healthier, longer, and more vibrant lives.
Quote/Piece of Advice: Always be listening to your body.
Website: www.chronicallyhealthylife.com
Facebook: www.facebook.com/PatchesNam/
Youtube: www.youtube.com/@chronicallyhealthylife
LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/andycnam/
 
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffect or @KatPolsinelli 
 
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com
 
Subscribe to my Youtube Channel 👇
https://www.youtube.com/@the-lotus-effect

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Who is Kat? 

From stepping onto a stage at 10 years old to stepping out of a decade-long abusive relationship, Kat Polsinelli’s journey is one of resilience and transformation. Now a sought-after speaker, bestselling co-author, and host of Real Chat with Kat—a top 10% globally ranked podcast airing on four radio stations and 2 public TV stations—she is on a mission to shed light on the unseen wounds of emotional and psychological abuse while empowering others to reclaim their strength.

A survivor of domestic violence, PTSD, and single motherhood at 16, Kat speaks with raw honesty about the lasting impact of trauma, the power of boundaries, and how self-worth plays a critical role in healing. Through her personal story of leaving and rebuilding, she challenges audiences to rethink what they know about abusive relationships, fostering a deeper understanding of the complexities survivors face.

Kat’s powerful voice has made her a sought-after speaker for colleges, healthcare professionals, and law enforcement, equipping them with the knowledge to support survivors and create meaningful change. She has been featured in NashvilleVoyager, CanvasRebel, and Her Nation and has taken the stage at universities, domestic violence awareness events, and criminal justice panels. With a no-nonsense approach and a compassionate heart, Kat sparks conversations, challenges perspectives, and brings light to even the darkest moments.

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