Real Chat with Kat
Welcome to Real Chat with Kat — the podcast that’s all about real conversations for real transformation. I’m your host, Kat Polsinelli, and here we tackle the tough stuff — the pivots, the challenges, and the victories that shape our lives and businesses. From overcoming trauma and finding your voice to navigating life’s unexpected twists, we get raw, honest, and open with inspiring guests who share their stories of resilience, healing, and growth. Whether it’s breaking through emotional abuse, embracing self-worth, or thriving in entrepreneurship, you’ll find connection, empowerment, and tools to keep moving forward. So grab your favorite drink, settle in, and get ready for stories that hit home and conversations that make a difference. Let’s get real — together!
Episodes
Friday Mar 08, 2024
Friday Mar 08, 2024
In this episode we are joined by Meliors Simms, known as the Holistic Tooth Fairy, for a deep dive into the world of natural oral health. Meliors brings a wealth of knowledge and experience as a holistic oral health coach, empowering listeners to take control of their oral wellness journey. With insights honed through years of research and personal experimentation, Meliors guides us through understanding the holistic approach to healing teeth and gums naturally.
Meet my guest Meliors Simms! Based in Raglan, New Zealand, Meliors is a natural oral health coach known as the Holistic Tooth Fairy. With years of research and personal experimentation, she offers a unique perspective on oral health, helping clients worldwide avoid unnecessary dental procedures and have better experiences with necessary ones.
Quote/Piece of Advice: If you have a symptom in your mouth, pay attention to that physical sensation and what it might represent. What the embodiment of it is and what is going on in your life and how could that tooth be expressing that. This will allow you to heal on a much deeper level.
Connect: On all socials @HolisticToothFairy or @MeliorsSimms OR on her website: www.HolisticToothFairy.com also check out her Youtube channel and her book: "The Secret Lives of Teeth"
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffectCoach or @KatPolsinelli
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com
Friday Mar 01, 2024
Friday Mar 01, 2024
In this episode, prepare to be inspired by the brilliant Dr. Heather Clark in this week's episode! Join us as we dive deep into:
Rediscovering Your Power: Dr. Clark empowers service-based individuals to reclaim their unshakeable, unstoppable, and vibrant selves. Inner Alignment: Learn the art of merging external search with internal knowing, finding balance and authenticity in every moment. Embracing Vulnerability: Discover the strength in vulnerability, meeting yourself and others where they are, and nurturing growth with compassion. The Joy of Self-Care: Explore the transformative power of self-care, aligning, resting, and finding joy, so your overflow enriches the lives of those around you.
Meet my guest, as the founder of the Mind and Consciousness Institute, Dr. Clark is a beacon of transformation for service-minded professionals. With her innovative metaphysical approach, she guides individuals to break free from stress, fatigue, and limitations, igniting their impact on the world without burning out. Tune in now to unlock the secrets of sustainable success and well-being with Dr. Heather Clark! Don't miss out on this deep inner discovery journey of an episode!
Quote/Piece of Advice: Stress is simply a symptom. Stress is any perceived challenge to normal balance…real, imagined, remembered or anticipated. Stress can be bad but it is a soul signal. It is telling you that there is something that is not being honored or a need not being met.
Connect: On FB @MindandConsciousness OR on her website: www.mindandconsciousness.org
(be sure to click on "Flow" on her website for her free resource)
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffectCoach or @KatPolsinelli
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com
Friday Feb 23, 2024
Friday Feb 23, 2024
In this episode, I had the absolute pleasure of chatting with the incredible Susan Morrow-Johnson, aka MoJo! Get ready for a mind-expanding conversation as we explore: Choosing Your Destiny: Discover how you can take control of your life's path at any moment, and redefine it whenever you wish. Embracing Change: MoJo shares insights on pivoting away from outdated societal norms and embracing your true desires. Self-Worth and Desires: Are you settling for less than you deserve? Dive into the importance of recognizing your own worth and pursuing your heart's desires fearlessly. Plus so so much more!!
Meet my guest from navigating an ADHD-infused childhood to discovering her extraordinary talent for communicating with the Other Side, MoJo's journey is nothing short of awe-inspiring. With a unique blend of divine guidance, writing, speaking, and a dash of humor, MoJo is on a mission to empower others to embrace their true selves and live authentically.Tune in now to embark on a journey of self-discovery and transformation with MoJo as your guide. Don't miss out on this enlightening episode!
Quote/Piece of Advice: If we all used our talents there would be perfect balance.
Connect: On all socials @TheMoJoMedium OR check her website and free resource for our listeners: www.mojomedium.com
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffectCoach or @KatPolsinelli
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com
Friday Feb 16, 2024
Friday Feb 16, 2024
In this episode I had the pleasure of chatting with Katie Dykstra, an absolute powerhouse in the world of Human Resources! Katie shares her incredible journey of over 18 years in HR, culminating in her own thriving business focused on executive coaching, leadership development, and HR consulting. We delved deep into some eye-opening topics: Letting go of control, the importance of communication, work-life integration, emotional intelligence and so much more! Don't skip over this one.
Meet my guest Katie Dykstra, with over 17 years of experience in HR, a master's degree in Human Resources Management, and certifications in executive coaching and diversity, Katie is a true expert in her field. When she's not revolutionizing HR or teaching master HR courses at Valpo University, she's giving back as President of the Northern Illinois Human Resource Council and volunteering with veteran-focused organizations. And let's not forget her favorite pastime—spending quality time with her husband and two kids, exploring the great outdoors!
Quote/Piece of Advice: I never look back darling because it distracts me from the now. (from the Incredibles Disney movie)
Connect: On Linkedin @Katie Dykstra OR KDWorkForce OR on her website: www.kdworkforce.com
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffectCoach or @KatPolsinelli
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com
Friday Feb 09, 2024
Friday Feb 09, 2024
In this episode April shares profound insights on ways to elevate your self-care, drawing from her personal journey where neglecting self-care led to unexpected challenges. Explore the connection between physical ailments, stress, and trauma, emphasizing the need to allow our bodies space for healing. April delves into the pitfalls of being a workaholic and perfectionist, highlighting the societal need for increased awareness of how our daily habits impact our well-being. Tune in for a heart-to-heart discussion on understanding the deeper meaning of self-care, celebrating your small accomplishments, and building trust within yourself.
Meet my wonderful guest April Yee, a resilient soul who, after life-saving surgery in 2015, recognized the pivotal role of self-care in creating a fulfilling life. With a background in private equity and a passion for service, April serves on the boards of multiple nonprofits, including Kidpower International.
Quote/Piece of Advice: Brene Brown quote: “Here’s what is true at the heart of wholeheartedness: Worthy now. Not if. Not when. We are worthy of love and belonging now. Right this minute. As is.”
Connect: On LinkedIn and IG @April Yee OR on her website: www.TheHealingModalities.com
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffectCoach or @KatPolsinelli
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com
Friday Feb 02, 2024
Friday Feb 02, 2024
In this episode Wendy explores the intersection of business and life, emphasizing the importance of intertwining both while staying authentic in your approach to branding and marketing. Uncover valuable insights on running your business effectively by essentially selling YOU! Wendy shares practical tips on crowd-sourcing your brand, posing four thought-provoking questions to your audience to understand how others perceive you and the language they use.
Meet my guest (round 2) for the wonderful Wendy Cocke, founder of Engineering Leadership Solutions LLC, who leverages her engineering mindset to empower high-achieving, technical professionals in defining success on their own terms. Wendy's journey from a chemical engineer to leading technical teams in Fortune 500 companies, and eventually establishing her consulting company, exemplifies her commitment to work-life balance and personal customization. Tune in to gain insights from Wendy's wealth of experience as she helps you reimagine your work, manage your career, and thrive in both business and life.
Quote/Piece of Advice: The measure of intelligence is the ability to change.
Connect: On LinkedIn @Wendy Cocke OR on her websites:
reimagineyourwork.com / engineeringleadershipsolutions.com
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffectCoach or @KatPolsinelli
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com
Monday Jan 29, 2024
Monday Jan 29, 2024
In this episode Cheryl unravels the intricate relationship between the brain and body, emphasizing their synergy rather than separation. Gain insights into the difference between her approach and traditional physical therapy, exploring diverse ways to learn movements that align with your unique body mechanics.
Meet my guest Cheryl Whitelaw, a Move More without Regrets coach, dedicated to supporting clients in living with vitality, recovering from operations or injuries, and finding balance and mobility. Her expertise extends to martial artists, helping enhance their performance. Cheryl's commitment to whole-person somatic intelligence empowers individuals to move younger as they age. Tune in now for a journey into the transformative power of movement and the mind!
Quote/Piece of Advice: The single best thing you can do for yourself is, putting your attention into your body on a regular basis. Really pause and pay attention to the full sensations of holding or touching something and use this as a way to bring you back to the present and back to what your body is doing and feeling. So take a moment to really zone in, and bring yourself back to your body.
Connect: On LinkedIn @Cheryl Whitelaw OR on YouTube at Peace and Power Movement Services OR on her website: www.peaceandpower.ca
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffectCoach or @KatPolsinelli
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com
Friday Jan 26, 2024
Friday Jan 26, 2024
In this episode, with my guest Robert, he distinguishes between being a leader and a boss, shedding light on what effective leadership entails when working with or leading a team. Discover the importance of recognizing diverse perspectives within your team and the key components to relinquishing control, allowing your team to unleash their creativity in their zone of genius.
Meet my guest Robert Soehner! He is a firm believer in the power of culture and process to achieve extraordinary results. As a coach, he's dedicated to unlocking the potential of teams and uncovering hidden possibilities within businesses. Don't miss this enriching episode that unravels the secrets of effective leadership and team dynamics.
Quote/Piece of Advice: Take the time to get to know your team and how everyone else likes to communicate. Understanding how they communicate and what they are good at is the best way to position others on your team in the right area.
Connect: On LinkedIn @RobertSoehner or if you want information on the company he works with (Focal Point coaching) email him: rsoehner@focalpointcoaching.com
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffectCoach or @KatPolsinelli
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com
Monday Jan 22, 2024
Monday Jan 22, 2024
In this episode we chat with the wonderful Anneliese Vance—Mommy CEO, fractional CMO, and the powerhouse behind Never Miss a Moment Consulting, LLC. Meet Anneliese Vance, a Mommy CEO with a mission to help fathers be present at home while conquering their business ventures.
Meet my guest, Anneliese who shares the nitty-gritty of running a business with two kids under the age of 4. Learn the art of balancing parenthood and entrepreneurship as she highlights the importance of non-negotiable priorities, setting boundaries, and the crucial need for self-care.
Discover how having a full cup can positively impact your business and personal life. Anneliese emphasizes the significance of giving dads and the men in our lives the space to be themselves and contribute to the family dynamics. This is definitely a Don't Skip episode!! Share your thoughts on this conversation!
Quote/Piece of Advice: The way that you do one thing, is the way that you do everything.
Connect: On LinkedIn or Facebook @AnnelieseVance OR check out her website: www.nevermissamoment.com
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffectCoach or @KatPolsinelli
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com
Friday Jan 19, 2024
Friday Jan 19, 2024
In this episode Elle shares invaluable insights on building strong personal and business relationships. Delve into the driving force behind her transition from a successful entrepreneur to a compassionate relationship guide with a Masters in Strategy. Discover the profound importance of self-love and understanding your needs before seeking external attention. Elle eloquently explores the significance of getting to know yourself, your operating style, and your desires within relationships. The episode unfolds the power of being present with emotions, understanding triggers, and how this awareness shapes communication and attracts positive energies into your life. Join us as we unravel layers of self-discovery, relationships, and the art of communication in this enriching episode.
Meet my guest Elle Ebizadeh, a seasoned relationship coach and entrepreneur and a beacon of strength and transformation. She shares her inspiring journey from heartbreak to becoming a catalyst for genuine emotional connections.
Quote/Piece of Advice: When you open your heart you create miracles.
Connect: on IG @ElleEbizadeh or her website: www.Heart2Heartcoaching.org
To connect with your host Kat:
@TheLotusEffectCoach or @KatPolsinelli
My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com

Who is Kat?
From stepping onto a stage at 10 years old to stepping out of a decade-long abusive relationship, Kat Polsinelli’s journey is one of resilience and transformation. Now a sought-after speaker, bestselling co-author, and host of Real Chat with Kat—a top 10% globally ranked podcast airing on four radio stations and 2 public TV stations—she is on a mission to shed light on the unseen wounds of emotional and psychological abuse while empowering others to reclaim their strength.
A survivor of domestic violence, PTSD, and single motherhood at 16, Kat speaks with raw honesty about the lasting impact of trauma, the power of boundaries, and how self-worth plays a critical role in healing. Through her personal story of leaving and rebuilding, she challenges audiences to rethink what they know about abusive relationships, fostering a deeper understanding of the complexities survivors face.
Kat’s powerful voice has made her a sought-after speaker for colleges, healthcare professionals, and law enforcement, equipping them with the knowledge to support survivors and create meaningful change. She has been featured in NashvilleVoyager, CanvasRebel, and Her Nation and has taken the stage at universities, domestic violence awareness events, and criminal justice panels. With a no-nonsense approach and a compassionate heart, Kat sparks conversations, challenges perspectives, and brings light to even the darkest moments.